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    How many straight men are assuming they brought a woman home while drunk the night before in the question, I wonder…...
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    Honestly, my guess is that this is a matter of threateningness, and that the disparity is due to the fact that most...
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  24. mymadameinred said: The reality being that the person raping, robbing, hurting, and or killing you doesn’t care about you, it’s about them exerting power and control over you. It’s not sex! It’s not even about the money, In a robbery! It’s power… Your: power, dignity, strength, confidence, and maybe even your life they’re taking away from you. That’s the reality, ask people how’d they feel about having any of those things taken away and you’ll know how they feel about rape.
  25. mymadameinred said: But even still some people would say that they’re glad to have angry man in their home looking for money, because they don’t know the reality.
  26. mymadameinred said: Though that’s a scenario most people would react negatively toward because most people think of robberies, more than rape.
  27. mymadameinred said: The problem with questions is the ability to think on them… The ability to fantasize, and create different realities… None of them particularly true… It’s like asking how would you feel if a man weighing 350 pounds, wearing body armor, and holding a shotgun walked up to you in your home demanding money?
  28. mymadameinred said: I’m of the opinion that unwanted touch is unwanted touch, no matter sexuality or gender! That the pain of rape is very real, and anyone who has been through it has felt a harm no words can describe… Speaking as victim myself.
  29. mymadameinred said: Damn straight! it seems to me that is the question, that was asked also. You could ask how people feel about the scenario all you want, but the only way to find out how they’d actually feel… Is to harm them… Which is such a wrong thing to do, I’m placing it with giving people cancer to find out how they feel about cancer. I’d say the best way to find data on this sort of thing is from prisoners who have been raped… As it is such a large data pool here in the states.
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    Quick side note: “toxic masculinity” is not blaming men, it’s blaming a society which entertains an ideal of...
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  34. argumate said: thanks, I saw it, I just thought it was stupid.
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    @argumate the post in question earlgreytea was talking about, with further elaboration. (earl, if you see this, you...
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  40. argumate said: not to mention the question of what happens *after* the described scenario with strange woman/man in your frickin’ bedroom
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    The differences in responses could be due to differences in social desirability pressures rather than preferences. I...
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  49. speed24601 said: This is the first time I’ve responded to one of your posts, Aella, so be gentle. As a straight male, I must confess most of us dream of a woman, whether we know her or not, sucking our dick when we wake up. I don’t consider it a “rape fantasy.” I consider the woman submitting to me because she’s sucking my dick. It’s like she’s automatically submitting to me. I hope you’re not upset by my opinion. I respect you and don’t want to offend you. Just wanted to be honest.
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