why do grown ass men at my work think it’s a compliment to say things like, “it’s so endearing that you’re such a nerd but if you were a guy i’d totally wanna be you up for being a loser!!! hahahaha!!!” fuck off jesus
“since I wanna fuck you I don’t think you’re a loser”
To be a woman is to be mid-status.
To be a man is to be high-status or low-status.