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The Trustee Model of Child Care

There is an idea, in some circles, that parents effectively own their children.  This risks leading to various abuses, and also doesn’t line up with all moral intuitions.  On the other hand, most children do not have the capabilities, including executive function, to adequately evaluate and act on long-term preferences that will become important when they become adults.

I propose a rather simple-but-vague model that has no doubt been proposed before.  The child is effectively held in a trust owned by their future self.  The duty of the parents, therefore, is to safely deliver a well-developed adult to be inherited at the point of hand-off.  They are the trust’s operators, not the trust’s owners, and thus they have a variety of duties, abilities, and limitations.

A parent can have vaccines administered.  They can’t remove a significant portion of the child’s body, or demand a tattoo of their choice.  They can enact ordinary disciplinary measures, but not abusive ones.  They can require that the child attend school and do well at it, but they are not allowed to engage in pure ideological indoctrination.  And, if they fail to meet the terms, they can be removed from administration of the metaphorical trust.

The exact details might vary.  In many ways this is what people are acting on already - thus why Child Protective Services exists in the first place - but it isn’t explicitly specified.  I outline it here mostly so that it can be brought up as a counter-model when people suggest either ownership of children, or treating children as atomistic adults with fully-formed executive functioning and experience.

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