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Now consider the consequences if this is relatively common - or at least if men believe it is relatively common.

Would male gender norms, with all their fear of deviation, and desire to be high-status and dominant and on top of a hierarchy of masculinity, look like they do today?  Would the norms be seemingly stubbornly resistant to change in ways that can’t be adequately explained by Feminist theories about gender?

I’m not sure how to untangle it, and how much is cultural vs deeper human psychology.