“Because for some transwomen, femininity can feel asymptotic — the closer you get, the more you feel you can never make it.”
This is a…hard, uncomfortable read if you’re a cis woman, but it’s a good read.
a lot to think about.
as someone who has engaged in a lot of shitty misguided misandry in the past, this was a crucial read. who is invested in the stability of men as a category n why? how can one speak to one’s experiences with weaponized masculinity without reinforcing other kinds of structural violence, like cissexism and white supremacy?
This is a bullshit article. It reflects tremendous self-loathing, and it was irresponsible for Medium to publish it. “It’s so hard the other girls don’t know my tragic trans narrative, because I have made a conscious decision to live it only in dreams and online anonymous op-eds and will never ever tell them.”
This is another case of cis people exploiting the pain and suffering of trans people who aren’t in a position to know better.
I originally discussed this article in some depth on facebook so please read on for a (slightly choppy) elaboration of my reaction:
I just read the text. I don’t know what I think about it yet, but I know one thing for sure : wow, fuck you :) @collaterlysisters
let me add on to this, fuck you @collaterlysisters
Ah, yes, I read this some time ago.
I can never be a true traditionalist, because I want to build the switch and obliterate dozens of category distinctions in doing so. It’s the only way to end many of the existing tensions within so many systems. Eventually, you have to go beyond triaging with limited resources and build such an overwhelmingly powerful economy that you can choose all the options you wanted before simultaneously.