@obiternihili  And I lean towards that, and am asking for examples indirectly

The new masculinities are out there being formed right now in the vast chasms of the net, but many are too liquid now and not yet crystalized.

Some are pulling from the future, where gender is more dissolved than it is now, and mixing outwards transgressions with confidence.

Others pull elements from the past without taking the whole thing.  Some degree of sexual promiscuity has always been present in human society, but not always with the same rules, social punishments, and social status.

I don’t think new stable equilibria will be fully identifiable for a while.