When talking about monstergirls, we are talking about something that is both greater and lesser than human. More powerful, sometimes overwhelmingly so, while also more animalistic and wild. Sexual, enthusiastic, playful.
What men want, the longing in their hearts, is to be wanted. To be validated, in the only way that masculinity can be.
The straight female fantasy of her own overwhelming desirability taming a terrifying and powerful, yet handsome and charming creature, more masculine than any mere man, and monopolizing it to her own ends, is matched in its male mirror.
